The Wears and Tears of Passion♠

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This that good love boy, you ain’t know?

When you have a passion for something or someone you go hard for it, and I mean really, really hard for it because it’s what you believe in, right?

It’s kind of resembles the reason you get out of bed, the reason you smile. It feeds your soul and gives you hope, it gives you a purpose to live…

Passion:

  • any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling as love or hate.
  • a strong amorous feeling or desire; love; adore.
  • strong and barely controllable emotion

See, the thing about passion is that, although its impeccable to feel when it’s being reciprocated well and it’s being embraced, it can also be dangerous and devastating  when something falls short in the equation of it reaching its full capability.

I know you all know the saying: “Too much of anything isn’t good for you.” right?

Well, in this case, it applies more than ever.

Passion, depending on the strength level of the person who is supposed to be receiving it, can come off “too strong”. So much so, that you’ll start getting comments such as:

“You’re crazy, you’re psycho, or you’re doing too much, you’re too much, and your overbearing”. 

When you get these reactions from people, you as the passionate being that you are, you start to really believe those things that people tell you and call you.

You start to believe that because the ones that you’ve been dealing with thus far cannot understand your powerful emotion, that you’re in the wrong. You’ll also start to blame yourself for everyone else pushing themselves away from you and keeping their distance.

But, the good news is: I know from personal and recent experience that this is not completely true, and you need to just change your perspective and direction a little bit.

Look at it like this, the issue is not the sole fact of you being passionate but it’s more of knowing when, who ,where, what, why, and how to release it. Passion is a gift and a curse, you feel deeply and a lot of the time it slaps you in the face.

It also reverts back to the concept of: Time.

Yes, I know!!  It gets on my nerves too, but it’s so apparent in all aspects of life that it just can’t be ignored.

Passion is amazing, passion is rare, and not many have it. But because of this fact, only few have it it’s easily misunderstood, rejected, and shunned. So when using it, make sure you thoroughly assess the situation and the people first. Spread droplets of your passion to begin with to test the waters.

This caution will do you good, believe me!

This goes especially for women. Due to us being the magical and majestic beings in many ways and forms that we are just naturally, we’re stronger and more receptive than any other species, specifically the male one. lol

“Don’t ever dim your light to make others in the room comfortable, but humbly shine even brighter.”

-Chántelle Agbro

The average person is going to fear what they don’t understand and you have to understand that that has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with them, so let it be.

You’ll find that when releasing your passion because of its deep roots with love it’s damn near impossible to stop when it starts to flow. This is where it gets tricky all over again because although it’s not your intention, it can and will easily be mistaken for force, which then can put you in a compromising situation.

No one wants that.

It’s okay that some don’t receive what you pour out because it’s a sign that growth is needed and we all can embrace the benefits of improving.

I’ve come to the clear realization that I really just have to embrace this life and all these talents, qualities, traits, and characteristics that GOD himself has instilled in me, unapologetically.

When I do that, nothing will be too much for me.

Nothing will seem as frustrating.

Nothing will seem as confusing.

Believing and trusting that what you prayed for will eventually come to pass trumps all things!

GOD trumps all, as well as his love and his timing.

“Include everything as you embrace this GOD life and you will receive GOD’s everything.”

Mark 11:24

Reminders:

  1. Nothing will happen before its time.
  2. Everything is in divine order.
  3. Be mindful of where you pour your passion.

“When it flowing it’s GOD, when it’s forcing its US.”

And as hard as it can be sometimes, just let GOD flow, trust me!], he got YOU!

Have a phenomenal week babies!

-Love Telley

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Solitude.∫

“To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions.”

-Deepak Chopra 

The sad and unfortunate truth about this quote is that most people living  on earth now, will never reach this point of living, let alone of understanding. The simple fact that in this day and age being alone is considered a sign of weakness, speaks loud and clear to how ignorant and backwards this generation actually is.

Being alone is the ultimate sign of strength (if you ask me) because you know how to get through hell without being dependent.

I get criticized all the time for being alone, because people automatically assume that equates to being lonely. However, people fail to realize that it’s a choiceI choose to be alone! And FYI I’m not lonely and never will be.

“If she’s alone now, she won’t be alone for long.”

And you can bet on that, for those of you who fear being in solitude and are worried about mine.

There is a saying that goes, “In the end all you have is yourself.” and they couldn’t have been more accurate with that statement.

Note: #Solitudeisbliss

For instance, I see this all the time and I’m sure you do too because you probably do it. When you go to a party, cookout, or even a kickback, how many of you would actually even consider going alone? …

Don’t worry I’ll wait.

My guess is 9 out of 10 of you all wouldn’t.

Now, when I refer to going to these places of course I’m speaking of a circumstance that you’ve met the people before and know them very well or well enough.

People in general are  just are afraid of going anywhere alone and I believe it has more to do with internal factors than outside factors. Besides the fact that this generation is socially awkward, everything is also done for show and it’s disgusting.

Everyone thinks “Oh, I’m going to go with this person and that person to this place because everyone is going to be there and I don’t want them to think I don’t have friends, or I don’t want to look dumb or look weak.”

My thoughts: Pathetic.

Now, if you ask me I’d much rather go everywhere alone than to be with people all the time who I really don’t care for. I also sometimes  just like to be left alone.

In my own space.

In my own thoughts.

In my own element.

Because it’s where my best arises!

(This could also have to do with my personality but regardless everyone needs some alone time for a reasonable amount of time. It’s good for the mind, body and soul.)

Now, I’m not saying be alone all the time but I am saying be observant of those around you. I mean think about it guys, how can you ever be serious about YOU, if you are never ever solely just with you?

Answer: You cannot be!

Anyone who tells you that they are serious about themselves and capitalizing on their endeavours but is never alone is a FRAUD! I want to make that very clear, so get your mind right!

“Without great solitude, no serious work is possible”.

 – Picasso

If you always need a crowd/people with you, then you’re a joke and nine times out of ten you’re very insecure as well.

QTNA: Why are you so resistant to be alone?

What are you hiding from?

What don’t you want people to realize about you?

What don’t you want to admit to yourself about yourself?

How long are you going to put up a front?

It’s funny, because while thinking of what exactly to say in this post I realized that solitude has literally been my life for the past 4 years roughly, and I still haven’t spoke on it, well in depth that is, until today.

However, before I go into to grave detail about my life’s previous experiences let me just say this, I know that there are so many people out there my age and slightly older/younger that are confused/ stressing over someone other than themselves.

I am here to tell you: STOP WAISTING YOUR PRECIOUS TIME, because you don’t get it back. He/She isn’t worth it…at all.

Trust me, I would know!

If you are meant to be with a person you will be. Let it go and hope and pray they come back around, if anything that you both shared was genuine.

“Plant your garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.”

– Jorge Luis Borges

Note: #Solitudeisbliss

Live your life, travel the world, fall in and out of love about 80 times, make mistakes, but keep in mind that karma does exist so don’t sweat the small stuff!

“I’m learning to appreciate loss. Anything that’s meant to journey with you (technically) can’t leave no matter how hard it tries. Forcing relationships equates to being STAGNANT.

Move Forward.”

Okay, now the moment you’ve all been waiting for!!!!! I know it’s about that time for me to get deep into my life story, about how solitude pertains to my life soooooooooooooooo,  GUESS WHAT!??? (keep scrolling)

I AM WRITING A BOOK ! ! !

So stay tuned for the rest of each posts from now and look out for what I’ve added to my previous ones, you won’t believe it! I really have so much I need/want to share with you all! Your support is the reason I continue to do it! Make sure you spread the word, #2016 will be a marvelous and fruitful year!

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